May 232013
 

a coffee pot

“come in!  the pot’s on.

sit down and tell me a sea story.”

~

words from my childhood.  from my father.

everyone who came to the door as a friend or future friend . . .

that was his greeting.

and true enough.  he and my mother always seemed to “have the pot on.”

~

so.

today i am going to invite you in.  you may have your drink of choice though!

not everybody is a coffee hound.

as a matter of fact the star of this post is not.  and she lives in the most

coffee lovin’est place in this country!

~

but.  don’t want to get ahead of myself.

here’s the sea story i want to tell you.

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a little girl named elizabeth grew up in the northeast country.

where winters are long and cold and most everybody has a sauna.

one terrible day . . . i don’t think any could comprehend how terrible ~

the little girl elizabeth was burned by the boiling hot water in the sauna.

just a wee little child she was.

not her face.  thank heaven. but all her body.

can you even imagine it?

the excruciating months and months and months

of overcoming agony and the slow process of healing body and mind.

because fear dwells in the mind. and is as bad as any burn.

because the fear stays. along with the scars.

~

for some reason after that . . . she was expected to sit in the sauna again.

a stoic way of building courage perhaps.  because her parents are good strong people.

they would never intentionally cause her anguish.

but the little elizabeth sat there trembling inside with fear. always.

~

and she kept it to herself.

~

coffee library thing

want me to top it up for you?

this fascinating sea story is just beginning.

and you don’t want to miss it.

~

little brave elizabeth grew up to become an engineer. a good one.

she loved math.  still does.  and soon found herself working long long hours.

a cubicle. endless hours. endless work of the engineer.

going home too tired to think anymore.  much less create.

~

she now lived all the way across the country.

the pacific northwest.

the magical land of pine forests and mists and swirling fogs that hold the mystery

of man himself.

~

elizabeth lives here

~

and the sea.  the crystal sea where dolphins and sea otters and seals share secrets.

and the whale speaks.

~

it took courage to move so far from home.

but in this elizabeth’s heart is a spirit of adventure.

she is not just anybody.

she is elizabeth.

if i ever had a daughter i would have wanted her to be like this girl.

~

i don’t know how i found her really.  other than i have always known this secret . . .

that trees can talk.  they only talk to those who know they talk.

and elizabeth is a fellow tree talker.

i think those of us who believe that just manage to find each other.

~

eliz forest

~

she lives at the edge of a forest.

in a small village near her beloved portland in oregon.

~

eliz pine in rain

~

can you smell the freshness of the pine forest in this picture?

the sweet pungent pine after the rain.

the glistening drops falling . . .

i can.

this is her picture.  she makes pictures that engage all the senses.

and this is one of my favorites.

~

  as it turns out . . .

elizabeth is not an engineer at all.

she was a very successful one.  once.  but before it was too late . . .

she awoke to realize that it was killing her soul.

~

it turns out that her soul is beautiful.

i talk about myself as ‘the little monk in a wind torn robe’

well.  i’m a sham.  i aspire to that.  but i’m a sham.

elizabeth is the real thing.

~

there are people in this world who were born to be artists.

it simply flows from them.  and if they’ve endured what she did

and so many of them do endure some kind of pain or torment in their lives

it simply seems to make them better.

~

listen to elizabeth.  these are her words.

~

“hush.  can you hear your soul singing?

listen …

wait for it..

and when you hear the music

follow it wherever it may lead.”

~

it lead her here

eliz blue beach

a blue sea at the dawn of endless possibilities.

~

her room mate is silver.  he is like silk. and he has amber blue eyes.

he is her favorite subject.  he doesn’t like it.  he is not a publicity hound.

he is atlas.

~

atlas and blue eyes

~

in her words

” i love him times a million billon and seventy three forty seven.”

he is her forever puppy.

he speaks with his amber eyes.

~

they are inseparable.

~

atlas in flight

atlas in flight

~

atlas dog

sir atlas.

~

atlas tell me a story

~

and atlas waiting for a bedtime story.

~

oh.

you haven’t heard one of elizabeth’s stories?

they’re never too long.  they’re always just long enough.

very important when telling a story.

something i could learn from her!  LOL.

you may have children’s books in your home.

you may love children’s books as i do.

i own many of them because i simply love them.

but you have nothing ~ until you have one of elizabeth’s stories.

they are a quirky perfection.

they make you smile. and laugh.  and just . . . well . . .

they make you feel good!

~

when you’re through reading the rest of the post . . .

come back here if you want to go directly to her story section

http://www.elizabethhalt.com/products-and-offerings/stories/

~

she once described herself as

the girl with the kaleidoscope eyes.

she is that.

and she is enchanting.

~

she takes pictures of light itself.

dawning of the light

all the pictures you see here

except for the coffee pot and cup of coffee . . .

they are all elizabeth’s.

~

she believes in ‘real mail.’

the joy of opening an envelope addressed to YOU!

not a bill. not circular junk. but a card that is beautifully made.

i keep a supply of her beautiful photographic cards.

they are original art on the finest parchment paper with the olde world

torn beveled edge. and parchment envelopes.  elegance personified.

you won’t find them with the trite phrases in the stores.

you order them from elizabeth.

you go to your mailbox and there await tiny pieces of art.

some i have simply kept to view again and again.

when you do write upon them and send them to special people . . .

your writing takes on almost a look of fine calligraphy to match the fineness of the paper!

it’s magical.  but it really does.

it takes me to the era of jane austen. when people knew the importance of messages.

not email.

warm messages with the feel of the human about them. the art. the grace.

~

a quote from her blog . . .

“it’s not what you look at that matters.  it’s what you see.”

                                              ~ henry david Thoreau

~

and elizabeth sees light.

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this picture.

perfect morning light i think.

delicate.  fleeting.  caught.

~

elizabeth light

~

elizabeth sun

the color of joy. radiance.

~

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atlas!

what are you doing standing there laughing in the tulips!

get out of there silly puppy.

no kitties to be found.

atlas loves kitties.  and lives for the day he has his own.

~

this is elizabeth’s blog.

http://www.elizabethhalt.com/

she makes her living now with her little business

of sharing beauty and love.

and stories

~

and she is a reiki master.

that is fascinating in itself.  and i attest that it works.

a gentle ancient art.  probably as old as time. lost. then

rediscovered many many years ago.  and found just in time i would say.

just in time for our busy harrowing lives.

for people who simply don’t know how to stop.

~

she needs little in the way of material goods.

but she needs to live.  as we all do.

and supporting artists among us is a privilege to me.

and always will be.

~

these young artists are priceless to us.

they give the world hope.

without them this world would be even an uglier place

than man tries to make it.

thank goodness for them!

they remind us of the higher calling to appreciate the beauty around us.

~

the elizabeths know that the important things in life

are beauty.  and love.  and peace.  and happiness.

and just possibly seeing

with “kaleidoscope eyes.”

~

i hope you visit her blog.  tell her you came from the peanut.

browse through the wonderful archives on her blog.

give yourself time to linger and soak up a pure heart.

it will do you a world of good.

and

browse in her little shoppe of beauty.

find the cards you’d like to delight your friends with as a surprise in the mail.

and

surprise a favorite child or grandchild with her remarkable stories.

~

and meet the star of the show . . .

atlas.

LOL.

~

as i mentioned above . . . elizabeth is a reiki master.

if you don’t know about it.  you can discover it on her blog.

if you do know about it… rest assured you are held in the healing thoughts of

one who is pure love.  and humility.

and humor.  and beauty.

and it works.  i am proof.

what more could we ask?

~

ehalt

can you smell the cool violet hues of the lavender?

~

eliz light b and w

~

el and wize atlas

~

i’m trying to meditate here lady. enough with the camera.

~

elizabeth lives here

yes.  her land of ancient forests and sea mist

~

elizabethe= and atlas 2

and here she is.

~

meet my dear friend elizabeth.

and atlas.

the famous silver puppy who loves elizabeth and kitties and stories at bedtime

and walks on the beach and in the forests

and who is loved

” times a million billion and seventy three forty seven! “

~

elizabeth beach lite

~

hear the birds?  the sea?

there is healing here.

and elizabeth knows.

~

did i tell you it’s her belief that there are never enough

pickles on a sandwich?

NO.  THERE ARE NOT!

and one of her dreams is to have a little picklewich shoppe one day.

she could display her art.  and serve picklewiches

and tell her enchanting stories . . .

and it would just be wonderful.

~

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~

whether sunny days

or

time to call it a day . . .

~

elizabeht sunset

~

we love your pictures elizabeth.

little engineer turned artist with a monk’s soul.

you fill this world with love and beauty.

there needs to be more and more and more like you.

~

thank you.

~

atlas

and

puppy atlas!!!

come back!!!

no more pictures.

we promise!

~

til soon old bean!

til soon.

~

visit here.

http://www.elizabethhalt.com/

elizabeth

bye elizabeth!

~

oh . . .

please . . .

just one last smell of that fresh clean pine

eliz pine in rain

oh. p.s.

a reminder only from me . . .

all of the beautiful pictures here are elizabeth’s. taken by her.

except for the two of atlas and her of course! and the coffee pot and coffee cup . . .

so . . . please be kind and don’t use without her permission. thank you!

May 222013
 

door-to-imagination1

the door to imagination.

~

 

 

i had this post ready to go the day we got hit by the mammoth F5 tornado.

it’s a post about what i would do if money were no object.

in a way it seems frivolous now.  but then i got to thinking.

maybe not.

now if i had that kind of money i would of course help the devastation.

~

my heart goes out to all those people who’ve lost everything and will rebuild their lives.

it’s those who lost loved ones and children that no amount of money can replace.

they are in my heart. cradled there in shared grief.

~

i’m proud of our people here.  you hear little complaining now. they’re simply getting on.

no looters.  just our friendly oklahoma neighborliness and determination.

so.  in their honor . . .

and to lighten our hearts ~ i’ve decided to go ahead and post this as originally planned.

such beautiful pictures from talented photographers.

as usual!

~

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courtesy: www.le-citydeluxe.com

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today.

i’m thinking today of young mothers everywhere.  frazzled and fatigued beyond belief.

you know the ones.  the ones who hold down a full time job and still keep

the home afloat.

fixing meals. making sure there are clean clothes. keeping a path through

the living room at least!  LOL.

breaking up fights between siblings.  worrying about bills. buying food.

stretching an already stretched budget.

~

i am not belittling the importance of the father in the homelife. no never!

heaven knows the contribution of a good husband and father!

but.

i’m saying . . .

from the time she endures the carrying of the child for 9 months

and the changes in her body ever after and even if she doesn’t have her children

that way particularly . . .  simply being a woman is a chore!   LOL.

the hormonal thing that seems to go on forever anyway ~ for all of us! . . .

~

well.

this post is for her.

~

the title is ‘if i did.’

that means if i did have Millions and Gazillions and Trillionzillions of dollars ~ what would i do?

well . . .

after setting up a program to feed the starving peoples of the world

and after saving ALL the factory farm animals.  and providing homes and . . .

well.  i told you it was a MGT budget and even more! . . .

but all that goes unsaid.

~

after i had done all that of course

i would turn my attention to the tired mothers of this world.

i would have spas for just mothers.

~

each one could visit one of my spas at no expense to her.

if it wasn’t near her . . . i would pay her way there.

~

see the picture above?

imagine yourself walking to dinner across that little bridge.

the night is warm but there is just enough of a cool breeze.

you are on your way to eating a healthy meal prepared just for you.

you didn’t have to think about it or cook it.  it’s just there.

you can eat it in solitude or in the company of other mothers.

that is up to you.  this is your place.  your silence. your refreshment.

~

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courtesy: www.segolilydayspa.com

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welcome.

you would be welcomed with calm.

and beauty everywhere.

this would be your place.  your days.  your nights.

no worries here.

the tea would be refreshing.  you are free here.  to simply be.

you can

rest.

~

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courtesy: creativesynergies.com

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you can walk.  we have beautiful grounds here.  the air is perfect.

not too hot. a bit warm with a soft cool breeze. oh but in autumn!

you must come back in autumn!  but then that’s a whole other post.

today you are simply here and resting from the world.

~

you will be pampered here.

~

day-spas

~

spas

courtesy: vinehurstinn.com

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taking care of our feet.  so so so important!

nothing is more refreshing to a tired spirit

~

a little lemon and orange

healthy drinks here for you.

you’ll feel rejuvenated in no time!

~

a sundae

~

and we don’t judge!  heck.  if this is more your style ~

then i say  ” GO FOR IT ! “

~

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courtesy: welcometosandiego.com

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this is about you.  this is your spa.

~

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there is power and majesty in water.

it is an element that means life itself.

nothing survives without water.  plant nor animal.

~

as you rest here . . . think of your life as the white sands of this beach.

the waves wash away the traces.

the footprints

the footprints of loneliness.  and despair.  and fatigue.  and worry.

there is nothing to worry about.

you only ever have this day.  whatever is said.  that is the simple truth.

all the worry in the world is pointless.  life can make something different in an instant.

then

you have new worries!  LOLOL.

i’m trying to learn not to worry about things myself.  we’ll learn together!

but for now . . .

at my spa . . .

it’s simply not allowed.  not for you.  not for me.

~

and the sad sister of worry is also not allowed in this spa.

she is regret.

yes. a silly sister indeed.

regret.

nope.  the door is not open to either of them.

it’s open only to you.

~

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courtesy: www.britain-magazine.com

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there is a french writer i like.  her name is veronique vienne.

she writes small books of big wisdom.

two favorites of mine are ‘the art of imperfection.’  and ‘the art of the moment.’

~

she says

“. . . joie de vivre as the french call it ~ is pure joy of living.

a form of cheerfulness that ignores rationalization.”

~

i love that!

and we can have it.  it’s simply a rational matter of making up our minds to it! LOL.

~

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courtesy: marquisreforma.com

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a oh yeah

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get a good night’s sleep.  maybe your first in awhile!

in the morning you can sleep in if you like.

or you can rise early and have your coffee or juice on the terrace.

~

a soothing place

perhaps you prefer this room at the edge of a forest.

the bird sounds are exotic.

they are friendly reminders that life is good.

~

whatever that life might be.

~

haiku spa

~

it’s growing dark.  the morning will be soon.

you leave tomorrow.

~

but you will take with you the memories of this spa.

it’s yours whenever you can spare a minute.  and close a door.

and sit quietly.  and remember to open another door.

the door of imagination.

~

the one at the beginning of this post.

its ours to go through at will.

anything we can imagine we can live for moments in our mind.

what a gift!

~

it’s not wasted time at all.  it rests the spirit.

the world is moving so very fast.  and full of dangers and sadness at every turn.

you owe it to yourself to stay refreshed.

you’re a giver.  but with that giving comes exhaustion.

~

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courtesy: gweeopig.com

~

so.

when it all becomes too much

just lie back in our spa.  think nothing for awhile.

for just a little while you have been taking care of you.

~

you can visit here anytime you like.  our door is always open.

remember the name of the post.

~

if i did.

~

chloe

courtesy: members.virtualtourist.com

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you can do it!

you can be like this little person.

they know how to greet the day.

come to think of it . . . they know how to live this life.

~

well.  time for you to go.

but come back soon.

come whenever you need a rest.

the door of imagination is always open to you.

i wish you love.

and you have our admiration you know.

you mothers of the world’s new generations.  it’s a huge job you have.

~

til soon then old bean.

til soon!

May 202013
 

 

LEAD-Oklahoma-tornado1

this came through my area today  at 3:15 pm cst.

it stayed aloft then it came down.

it changed course and struck 8 miles down the road from me.

thank you for those of you who checked to see if i was okay.

it’s been a long long day here.

sirens sounded constantly.  tornadoes were all around us but

this one did the greatest damage.  F4.

there are 51 known dead ~ at least 20 of them little children.

~

i’m sure you’ve seen it all on tv

i only now just got power back.  you’ve probably seen more than i have.

~

they’ll continue searching for buried people the rest of the night and tomorrow.

we’re expecting more thunderstorms they say tonight but no more tornadoes.

only hail.

~

it really does sound like a freight train like they say.

i have friends who lost their homes.  but they’re alive.

there are dead horses everywhere.  it hit a stable with 80 of them.

going to bed now.

very tired.

love to all. and if any of you peanut readers live 8 miles down that road

hold the line.  our hearts are yours.

May 182013
 

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remember these?  we spent hours playing jacks.

i still think it would be fun!  haven’t seen them around.  but surely they are.

little girls sitting in groups playing jacks.

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when we weren’t playing this that is.

hop scotch!  exercise in the way of total fun.

~

not to mention jump rope and jump rope rhymes.

~

little golden books.  i had a ton of them.

and i loved comics too.

this was a favorite

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then . . .

we grew up just a little

~

and discovered

archie and betty and veronica!

and jughead and reggie.

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LOL.  really?

millie the model as role model!  look at the gloves!

i think i actually liked her because she looked like doris day.

~

and of course . . .

everybody loved this family . . .

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on sundays in the newspaper comic section.  dagwood and blondie!

~

and this handsome fellow.

faster than a speeding bullet!

~

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this guy was amazing.  talk about a role model.

~

then . . .

years go by.

~

remember these?

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courtesy: kookykitsch.com

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totally “natural” was the claim.

turned a color on your lips unique to just YOU!

i got by with it because it wasn’t actually considered lipstick.

well.

convinced my dad of that anyway!

i didn’t get to wear makeup til i was sixteen.  SIXTEEN!

that would be unbelievable today.  a little over the top even then i think.

but he was very strict.

i think girls start wearing makeup today at 12 or so.

which i find sad.

~

did you know that you can still buy tangee natural lipstick?

you can!  not for 59 cents though.

~

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courtesy: www.tangee.com

then . . .

came Yardley’s little pot o gloss.  remember that?

yardley

LOL!

and i did.  or thought i did anyway. shiney. smelly. and goopy!

~

then came the days of a magazine i thought i would read forever!  LOL.

~

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courtesy: sodahead.com

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i married when i was still a teenager.

that seems amazing to me now.  i had to get my mother’s signature.

but she adored bob as much as i did.  and so she signed.

had my father been alive he would never have allowed it.

but.

it would still be a wonderful married life today had bob lived.

you know that from past posts!  what a keeper he was.

we had 16 years even at that.  i treasure them.

~

and speaking of bob . . .

he especially liked my pair of these.

no! not the legs.  (well probably)

but the boots are what i mean!

~

remember these?

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white go~go boots!

made popular by this tv star before she was a movie star

in this popular tv show that supposedly broke all the rules.

~

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goldie in laugh in

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goldie hawn.

she and i are the same age.

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might be time to start accepting that goldie.

just a thought.  though i don’t know really. come to think of it . . .

if kurt likes it and you do too ~ what the hay!

~

but then i’ve also had the same haircut all my life.

only difference ~ mine’s rich grey mouse.  LOL.

i was what you’d call ‘in style’ for awhile when

pixie cuts were the rage.  but after that i stayed with it.

and not many others did!

i stayed because i never found anything else so EASY to care for!

shower and go.

that’s my kinda hair!

~

speaking of hair.

remember these?

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courtesy: flickr.com

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this shot is in america.

~

but apparently the craze was all over the world . . .

these girls were ‘getting ready’ in liverpool.  the u.k.

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courtesy: liverpoolscenes.com

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those days the dance rage was brought on by this guy

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courtesy: cerritosink.blogspot.com

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what i’m about to talk about in a minute makes me wonder.

do you happen to remember what your parents thought about the ‘twist’?

i honestly don’t recall what was said about it.

i’m sure there were many who were totally alarmed by it.

as they were by all of rock n roll i guess.

~

i grew up an innocent.

partly due to a disciplinarian father.

partly due to the fact we lived in an area that wasn’t the

‘swingin’est’ place in the world!

probably the last to catch any fad as a matter of fact.

~

here are some high school pictures of me and some friends.

~

we didn’t wear makeup.  we wore a little lipstick.

we were what you could only call wholesome.

the most risqué thing any ‘fast’ girl did was make out with the boys

in a car.  imagine that!  at the drive in!  LOL.

i don’t remember anybody getting pregnant.  or even that much gossip.

~

connie

connie.

doesn’t she look just like annette funnicello?

she grew up. became a registered nurse and married a doctor.

as a hobby they make their own beer.

~

donna

donna.

a real sweetheart.  i always stood by her in choir.

we were the only sopranos that sang the echo in the song “cool water.”

she became a flight attendant.  flew all over the world.

now has a bed and breakfast in a beautiful southern city with her husband.

~

tammy

me.

frankenstein bangs on a pixie.

HA! still managed to tease the top part to make it higher.

good grief.  remember teasing your hair?

only resulted in us all looking like a bunch of BIG heads! lol.

~

margareta

margareta

~

finally!

i couldn’t get a picture of my best friend in the world that year to load.

it came up with an x every time.

and now it just did.  although it’s small.  i can’t make it any bigger.

but at least it’s here now.

~

she was and surely is still so beautiful.

our swedish exchange student.   margareta.

she had long totally beautifully natural blonde hair.

she was tall.

she was quiet and a little shy. she blushed easily.

she wore clogs.  the first we’d ever seen.

she had a lovely lilting swedish accent and spoke impeccable english.

she knew our american history better than we did.

i shall remember her the rest of my life.

she got me through the rest of that school year after daddy died.

we lost touch after my bob died.  but she came to visit one year and got to meet him.

she married a young swedish diplomat.

he later became a high ranking minister of finance

 in the swedish government financial and world market.

they had two children.

~

i saw on the news the other day . . .

about

twerking.

have you ever heard of it?

  i have no idea how long it’s been going on.

i hadn’t heard of it until the news in san diego picked it up.

it’s a raunchy dance that teenage girls are doing right now.

it’s not really even a dance.  it’s a sexual move.

they entertain boys with it in public.  against walls.

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they have been suspended from their school for a short period of time apparently.

i saw it in motion.  i am not a prude by any means.

and i found it disgusting.  in the sense that they are in public.

that they are ‘performing.’

that they do it wherever they feel like it at the moment.

that seems to be the criteria.  the library.  the store.  the street.

the tighter the clothes or no clothes save a g string are the standard.

~

if my daughter were one of those young ‘ladies’ i don’t know what i would do.

~

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women all over this world in countries we know the names of all too well

are struggling and fighting for their lives

and being deformed by their husbands and their inlaws

and by men in general.

with acid. with knives.  they are no better than captives in a cage.

they are struggling for their freedom.  simply to live in safety and honor.

~

i wouldn’t want us to go back to the victorian age here either.

women were chattel.  they couldn’t vote. they were at the mercy of

their husbands or whomever was superior to them. no money. no free will.

~

as a young widow i was able to make a living wage.

thanks to women who went before me and protested unfairness.

and i can wear comfortable cool clothes in the summer without fear of being

‘inappropriate.’

~

but when i see young girls like this.

in few clothes or no clothes . . . a favorite way to do it on line apparently . . .

flaunting themselves and making moves only appropriate

for the bedroom. well.

good grief charlie brown.

i guess i’m really feeling my age because i just don’t understand it.

we seem to be going backward instead of foreward.

~

this guy below is the species that has a female that wags and displays

her buttocks in his face as a mating routine.

wonder if the ‘ladies’ and future mothers doing this move realize they’re merely

doing a very poor public imitation of an ape.

~

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he’s not impressed either.

~

til soon old bean.

with chagrin. embarrassment. and a certain amount of despair

at the ways of this world.  or at least this generation.

til soon.

~

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~ probably what they thought about the twist ~

May 172013
 

 

 

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how well do you know yourself?

i mean know yourself the way only you can deep down know yourself.

not the self you think the world accepts maybe better . . .

not saying we all have a public self and an inside self.

~

but then.  maybe on closer inspection ~ we do.

~

then there are those of us that are simply both selves.

or more selves!  LOL.

and each one is authentic.  but wait.  can they all be authentic?

~

see that picture above?

if i could find artwork that would make me feel like the light on that wall

i would buy it probably.

i like art.  but i have never found any that makes me feel like that.

~

so i would rather live without it.  or little of it.

~

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the fact is.

the more hectic and loud and in~your~face the world gets

the more talking heads i hear

pontificating on every single issue under the sun

my own head included

the more the world is too much with me

the more i revert back (is that redundant? probably)

the more i revert to the

simplicity

and fresh air

and spareness of just living with only.

~

with only means clean.

neat. uncluttered even if the clutter is sentimental.

i just don’t want it.

i want to live with only.

it means easy.

you breathe easily.

you relax.

you don’t drown in stuff.

your eyes rest.

your soul rests.

~

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nature.

soul rest for sure.

but what if you haven’t got the window looking out upon the forest?

what if your window looks out upon a brick wall?

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as long as there is light

as long as there is a little bit of space

(this space is amazingly luxurious)

but i personally prefer small and cozy

~

as long as there is a window even onto a brick wall

if you keep surfaces clean and clear

and when one beautiful vibrant vase of flowers

brightens your day and feeds your soul

~

you find you don’t need the tons of stuff.

you pay attention to the flowers.

you pay attention to your soul.

~

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everything he needs apparently is right here.

as long as there’s a bathroom with a shower somewhere there too

i’m okay!  LOL.

and maybe yes.  a little kitchen.

~

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luxury is okay.  but lovely as this is…

it’s the simple lines.

the peace.

the order.

the calm.

that’s what appeals to me.

like a chapel in the woods.

~

though you can keep the cone head painting. and the other one.   LOL.

~

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a place to put up feet.

books to read.  good light.  maybe too much light.

a little table to hold your glass.  or your cup.

a rug for the dog to lie upon.

unless he’s like mine would be.  right up there with me.

~

but.

this is over the top maybe.

maybe for me.

i don’t have a family.

~

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forest out every window.

a cozy fire.

a small table and chair in front to have lovely meals.

~

a bed near windows for heavenly fresh cool air.

no fuss.  no frills.  nothing to dust “around”

though a little to “placed” for my taste.

but

just simple spare and clean.

wood and nature and light.

my soul can rest.  my self is happy.

~

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~

i’ll never know this luxury.

but that is perfectly alright.  i can visit it here.  and that is enough.

i can actually hear the night sounds.  the crickets.  the slip of the water spills.

i’m sitting here having a glass of wine.

or beer.  i like a little light beer.

i’m having good conversation with the marine.

he has stopped by.  we both agree.

  the world can simply get to be too much with us.

~

so.

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when it gets too much with you too

feel free to stop by my house any time.

you won’t find

stuff.

i love seeing other people’s stuff.

their grandmother’s stuff.  their favorite aunt’s stuff.  now their own.

or

their last unbelievable thrift shop bargain!

~

i do.

and i know that that is how the majority of us live.

but

i just can’t live with all that.

~

and if you have all that beautiful stuff  and even more of it stored in the garage

and sometimes it all just gets to be

you know . . .

too much stuff! . . . LOL!

well . . . drop by here!

~

i’ve probably been known to be too much

the other way.

~

the way of

non ~ stuff.

as my friend pooh in the side bar of my blog likes to say.

pooh knows me pretty darn well.

as well as i know myself ‘probly.’

~

so here’s to us all says pooh!

~

til soon old bean.

til soon.

May 162013
 

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i at least got to walk her streets once.

i doubt i’ll ever get to return.  not being pessimistic. simply realistic.

i don’t have that kind of money.

~

my late sister~in~law chris was sent there on a special project once.

the marine was going to spend a week there just to see her

during the duration of her assignment.

i shamelessly invited myself along.

~

they kindly… VERY kindly allowed me to meet them there.

~

i arrived at gatwick. met the marine and we took the train into london.

it was my birthday as it turned out.

i had what was left of a horrendous case of bronchitis.

the flight made me totally deaf for a few hours after i landed.

small price to pay for getting to set foot in england.

i know it’s the u.k.

but to me it is forever england.

~

we had a two storey townhouse in mayfair.

  two bedrooms and bath and kitchen and

lovely living room with extra large windows that opened onto

st james’s street.

~

never in a million years could i have afforded that!!!

~

i didn’t sleep in the guest bedroom.

i slept on the floor under one of the living room windows.

i kept it open.  it was summer.

i would lie there in wonderment that i was actually THERE!

and i listened to all the people in the night . . . eating and clinking glasses

in the lovely restaurant below our townhouse.  it had outdoor tables.

i would drift happily off to sleep thinking of all the happy people.

~

the marine and i would walk all over london during the days.

then at night i would stay ‘home’ and give the two of them time to themselves.

although one evening we took a taxi and attended

‘phantom of the opera’ at the queen’s theater.

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the famous london taxi.

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nothing like it.

 it shines like the finest ebony.

dove grey carpet and upholstered seats.

a glass partition between the riders and the driver.

it was immaculate.  inside and out.

it was like stepping into a miniature rolls royce.

the driver wore a suit and tie.

when we got in and out ~ he held the door.

a pride in his job.  in his cab.  in his life.

beautiful and inspiring to see.

~

yellow cabs of new york?  are you hearing this?

what am i saying?  not just in new york!  ANY city cabs in america!!!

or . . . in most other cities of the world for that matter!

~

the marine and i visited and ate our lunch in every park in london.

we sat in the shade on beautiful benches under huge plane trees.

watched ducks in the pond . . .  strolled  in the park designed for king henry the eighth.

~

the only ‘touristy’ thing we did was visit the tower of london.

i climbed the stairs and saw where the two little princes were murdered.

~

when i think of london i think of the spirit of the english people.

we only ‘think’ we know about suffering and trauma.  we have never known it.

well. perhaps the closest we’ve come was during our own civil war.

that was horrific.  but i mean of late.  in the eras of our own lifetime.

~

we are only lately getting a teeny tiny taste of true devastation.

i mean that kind of devastation on our own home soil.

we have been fortunate in that regard.

~

the english people of London

in world war two

endured valiantly and stoically and courageously . . .

57

consecutive days and nights. that’s 57 straight days and nights!

of BOMBS falling everywhere in their city and outlying areas.

my mind has trouble comprehending that number of no let~up.

~

reading that is one thing.

we’ve all heard about it.  perhaps learned about it in school.

the great london blitz.

or maybe we saw some old film footage of it.

but

to truly realize what it’s saying . . . is something else.

 almost 2 solid months

of constant bombing day and night with no respite.

that is simply unbelievable to me.

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yes. the famous ‘london blitz.’

the blitz of unending terror.

the constant blasting roar of bombs.  the fires everywhere and the suffocating smoke.

  the stench of death.

the knowledge that no place was safe.

except maybe the subways.  the overcrowded subways that served as

bomb shelters.

~

and yet.  they carried on.

they stayed calm and they carried on.

~

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for as far as the eye could see. devastation.  death. debris.

we could take a lesson from their amazing ability to withstand

the evils set upon them.

~

the deadly explosions continued

all day every day

every night

for 57 straight days.  demoralizing.

but the english people did not give up.

~

the london blitz lasted over an entire period of 267 days.

that’s almost 37 weeks.  the better half of a full year.

unbelievable suffering.

~

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this resilient people rose up.

the city of london was rebuilt.

she is more glorious now than she ever was.

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like all cities in the world today

london has her problems.

unemployment.  silly politicians.  homelessness.  high cost of living.

but to me

london is home.  i felt at home there.  odd.

maybe something in my dna.  a faint drop of englishness in my past.

well.  a fact.  a lot more than a drop actually.  both sides of my parentage.

but why should it feel so strong?

~

it has and it continues.

if i ever get to go again.  one should never say never after all.

in spite of how i started this post!

~

if i ever get to go again ~ this time i should like to visit the english villages

and the countryside.

~

until then . . .   i will read about london.  and linger over her pictures . . .

and absorb her beauty and grace.

and admire the wonderful english spirit and humor

from afar!

and remember that one day many years ago . . .

i was privileged to walk her streets.

~

til soon old bean!

til soon.

May 152013
 

 

i am calmer now.

images like this one always help.

~

so does simply becoming quiet.

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the world we live in is not the world our forebears enjoyed and suffered.

the stresses they endured were more of nature and pure survival.

hard.  yes.  major hard.

~

but today our major stress i would say is simple ~

~ constant ~ and ever seemingly quickening

CHANGE.

~

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all my life i’ve rather courted change.

you know if you’ve read the peanut . . .

of my childhood.  and our family of four moving every year.

my father had that kind of job.  each move meant a promotion.

that is the way with some jobs.

~

as a child you either learn very quickly to adapt or you develop

self protective characteristics.  shyness.  maybe.

i think in me developed an ability and an enjoyment of being alone.

you always had yourself for company!  and your imagination!

~

Change

~

garish isn’t it?

that’s what most change feels like to us.  especially change forced upon us.

~

a dear friend of mine just did a post on his own blog about a coming change.

and yesterday for some unknown reason ~ it hit me rather hard.

for my friend i mean.

perhaps i was wondering in my own mind how it would hit me now if i suddenly

was faced with a big change forced upon me.

i’m so happy here in the little wren house.

~

another dear friend and i have recently been talking about “worry.”

and how it can affect our lives.  and how pointless it is.

i’ve never worried about ‘changing where i live.’  it’s what i did all my life.

i’m used to it like something that you’re used to so long ~  it’s in your very bones.

~

but.  along with the change for my friend comes a set of circumstances.

circumstances that can eventually affect us all to a degree.

~

you see.

it’s quietly being done all over our nation.  little by little.

sometimes it’s in the news.  more than likely not.  only known by those affected by it.

~

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condominiums.

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very exclusive.  high income.  condominiums.

~

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and more and more and more of them.

~

the same thing happened on the other coast.

to ‘pete’s harbor’.   an historical landmark of sorts.

a beautiful little harbor with liveaboards on lovely small crafts.

clean.  picturesque.  a sanctuary for all kinds of marine life.

~

remember  ‘save pete’s harbor’ ?  i wrote a post about it.

you can read it if you want.

it’s in the sidebar.  it’s called

‘the bully’s not just on the bus’.

gorgeous pictures of it there.

~

and leslie ~ her site is  ‘a simple life afloat’ . . . also on my sidebar . . .

and all of her neighbors that had been there for years and years

had to move or be evicted.

the rich people need condominiums built.

~

well.  good news.  at least for now.

thanks to the tireless and endless and agonizing EFFORTS of

LESLIE and numerous others who were trying to fight GOLIATH . . .

the FAST quirky deal they were trying to put past the city and the people

got called into question.  it now has to go before a new planning committee.

KUDOS LESLIE !!!

~

but she still had to move from her beloved harbor home.

and the harbor is still in danger

of being turned into a solely exclusive abodes~for~the~rich.

~

everyone has to move some time or other.  that’s not what i’m meaning here.

what i’m meaning is . . .

how long before every inch of water way and beach is being owned by

ONLY THE RICH.

and i’m not using the word wealthy here on purpose.

‘rich’ connotes to me a particular mindset.

often of ’new money’ or the worst aspects of people who have it.

a snobbery of sorts and a materialistic way of looking at life.

i’ve known some truly wealthy people in my life.

they are often gentle people with a great sense of value and humanity.

they are very different from ‘the rich.’

~

our beautiful beaches.  and inlets. and harbors.

many of which are . . . as leslie’s was . . .

a sanctuary that we the people share with nature’s beings.

~

concrete.  parking.  huge buildings that block views of the sunset.

only seen by those whose balconies and terraces have ‘the view.’

private property signs everywhere.

~

i’m thinking that was not the way it was intended to be.

but that’s the way it’s becoming.  and very fast too.

you see.  they simply don’t have enough places to live apparently.

and they don’t live like the rest of us.

they have to have gated communities.  and ‘private no entrance’ signs.

you know.  to keep the rest of us riff raff out.

~

oddly enough.  the man who is the multi-multi millionaire who is

buying up the keys and changing the face of it forever

is a renowned ‘philanthropist.’

~

just like the lady who sold out to the corporate raider types in leslie’s harbor.

that lady was renowned for being a grand ‘philanthropist.’

~

i’m tired of that word.  it has great tax advantages. and makes good press.

while behind the scenes . . .

the real object

is

to

make even

more money.

~

til soon old bean.

til soon.

May 142013
 

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well.

you’ve heard about charley.

and if you read the daily peanut at all . . .

then you surely know about the captain’s two ship mates.

his two cats.

~

he rescued charley when hurricane charley blew through the keys.

poor tiny bedraggle scared to death little charley.

she found a home in paradise

on a sailboat in the keys.

she lives with the captain.

but.

you never hear much about the other kitty.  i called her ‘nameless.’

yes.  sad.  but what are ya gonna do?  some kitties are just very private.

you know.  about their private lives.

~

well.  the captain has just taught me another thing about wordpress.

and in doing so he had me upload a picture of  ‘nameless.’

turns out she (he?) is not nameless at all.

her name is KC.

i thought it stood for kitty cat.  how stupid of me.

first of all.  not necessarily the rugged captain pirate type name for a cat . . .

secondly . . .  i was only wildly guessing.

~

her name is Keys Cat.

KC.

makes perfect sense!  LOL.

and yes.

little KC.  your picture is nice and large now.

we can see those mesmerizing eyes.

and the nose.  i love kitty noses.  so perfect.

she is a tiny grey tiger.  and don’t you forget it.

she’s saying . . .

“ok captain.  enough playing on the computer.

time to put a shrimp on the barbee.”

~

ain’t life grand!

thanks capt.  for the new lesson learned.

i’m gonna be a regular steve jobs before this is over.

well. or maybe a bill gates.

or . . .

well.  heck.  i’d settle for knowing how to

you know . . .

turn it on without written directions.

LOLOLOL!!!!

~

til soon old bean!

til soon.

~

oh.

charley.

how could i forget to give you equal time?

i’m so sorry!

here you are . . .

and you’re lookin’ good!

~

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stay dry charley.  and out of harm’s way.

one hurricane in a little cat’s life is one too many!

 

May 132013
 

 

 

 

” here’s lookin’ at you kid “

 

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courtesy:  best of the past. blogspot.com

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 i just discovered something.

i can’t seem to make these pictures any bigger like i used to.

and after the last few horrible weeks . . .

wordpress and i have a love/hate relationship.

i’m afraid to mess with anything now.  i just feel lucky i can get them

on here at all ! ! !  LOL.

~

BUT!

i also discovered something!

if you just click on the picture it enlarges it.

then of course you’ll have to click on your back arrow to get back to

the post.

but on some of these ~ it’s worth it.

they are such glorious pictures!

~

 i have a dearest friend.  she is the ‘child of the dust bowl’

  from one of my past posts  .  .  .  ‘the good ones . . .  celia’

a fascinating amazing life back then.  worth reading the post if you haven’t.

but . . .  the reason i mention her in this post . . .

is . . .  she literally hates black and white movies!  won’t watch them.

with the exception of one . . .

which she says is totally corny but she loves it anyway . . .

” westward the women “

~

LOL.  we laugh about her not liking black and white films.

and i just cannot imagine NOT liking them!!!

  she is modern and up to date in every way.

her interests and her life belie her age.  and i marvel at her.

but on this one thing ~ we totally disagree!!!

~

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well.

it might have been corny but it had a very gorgeous major star

mr robert taylor.

i'd go west with him

~

a western

yup.

i’m thinkin’ i’d probably go west with him too.  LOL.

~

feast your eyes on some of these wonderful stories.

all told in glamorous

mysterious

glorious

black and white . . .

the days of elegance on the screen.

~

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courtesy: fanpop.com

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miss audrey

in ‘a roman holiday’ with gregory peck.

  another favorite man of mine.

~

I cannot imagine his powerful performance in  ’to kill a mockingbird’  in color.

the drama and power and beautiful thoughts and his final speech.

oh my.

~

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courtesy:  best-of the past

~

yes.  bette davis.  a tiny tour de force.

i think she only stood 5 feet 1 inch.  but you’d never know it!

talk about spunk!  in real life too!

~

not necessarily a favorite actress of mine.

but something strange.  once you start watching a film she’s in . . .

you just become mesmerized.  at least i do!

she grabs you and won’t let go.

~

the ones i like best are ‘now voyager’ and ‘dark victory.’

her early work was her best.

~

and . . . . then . . .

here’s the man.

~

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hahahaha.  just seeing if you’re paying attention.

no. he’s not in total black and white here.

but dear heaven.  what a gorgeous man!

when asked one time by an interviewer what it was like

to be ‘cary grant’  .  .  .  .

he replied  .  .  .

” i don’t know.  i’d like to be cary grant. “

how delightful a wit is that?

~

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in his 80′s.  still a gentleman.  still beautiful.

~

okay.  back to black and white.

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are you bored yet?  i’m not!

~

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ah yes.

fred and ginger in ‘top hat’

elegance in motion.

gorgeous in any man’s language.

~

sorry.  i don’t know why i can’t make any of them bigger.

i’m just glad they’re here at all!

this technical stuff is so tiresome.

~

and as i post this next picture . . .

i can literally hear the enchanting theme in my head . . .

laura

~

gene tierney

Laura

courtesy: moviemail.com

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the set of her apartment was a visual feast!

as was the entire mystery movie.

~

oh lordy.  it’s one of my bestest mostest all time favorites.

for the song alone and the whole musical score

played throughout this movie . . .  if for nothing else!

only it’s a fantastic movie.

starring the beautiful gene tierney.  oops.  i already said that.

and another solidly great actor . . . dana andrews.

i think he was under appreciated in his time.

he was also in another great black and white film . . .

‘the best years of our lives.’

~

also another favorite black and white she’s in . . .

‘the ghost and mrs muir” with rex harrison as the sea captain ghost!

~  ~  ~

and . . .   here they are.

the most glamorous loving married couple ever!

mryna loy and william powell

~

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courtesy: -pinkgin-blogspot.com

~

mr and mrs   ’the thin man’

rather . . .

nick and nora charles.

~

the most urbane and witty and delightful sleuths in the business!

oh. yes.

i forgot asta.

~

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the little person in the middle!  stole EVERY show!

~

Rebecca

~

who can forget ‘rebecca’ ?

a dark and lovely performance

made all the more poignant in black and white.

~

sir laurence and fontaine.

~

and then . . .  off to the philadelphia main line . . .

where lots of money and rich heiresses live.

and make you laugh . . .

~

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courtesy: fanpop.com

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hepburn and grant

this one of course is the ‘philadelphia story’

it had another favorite man of mine in it . . .

jimmy stewart.

of course hepburn and grant

teamed together also in ‘bringing up baby’

” baby “ was a real live leopard!

~

i’m sure you remember all these old bean!

and if you’re a young peanut reader and you haven’t seen any of

these beautiful old classic movies . . .

well!  i hope you get you a big bowl of popcorn and find you some!

you won’t regret it.  you’ll be hooked!

and . . .

if by chance you’ve been wise enough in your young years to discover them

and value them

then KUDOS to you! for having such GOOD TASTE ! ! !

~

then . . .   there is ‘ sabrina ‘

a delightful romantic comedy with a tiny touch of drama.

~

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courtesy: bettesmovieblog.blogspot.com

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little miss audrey.  who can do no wrong.

the first and original ‘sabrina.’

the remake of this was okay ~ in color ~ with harrison ford.

but nothing can top the very first one

for sheer style and beauty and humor and elegance.

bogart. holden. hepburn.

perfection.

~

top hat gown

courtesy: malepatternbaldness.com

~

well.

it’s time for me to dance away.

there is not time nor space to list all the ones i love.

and i’m sure i missed most of your own favorites . . .

the list goes on and on and wonderfully on!

~

but before i go.  i have just one thing to say.

and i know this will age me but i frankly don’t care.

~

i love our color movies now.  i just like movies period.

and some of the most beautiful are in stunning color.

but the black and white era

could teach the NOW hollywood a thing or two . . .

for instance . . .

that

WIT and intelligent dialogue will never ever be out of style

that

SEXY doesn’t necessarily mean bare breasts and bare bottoms

that

LOVE can be portrayed without seeing naked bodies grunting and writhing about

that

DRAMA can be achieved without blowing things up and splattering blood everywhere

that

QUALITY is never about devaluing the human spirit . . .  whatever its circumstance

that

BEAUTY is a simple elegant thing that only requires a good story told well.

and lastly . . . that

VIOLENCE. EXTREME VIOLENCE is still being fed to young minds of countless generations.

and we are gradually . . . or maybe not so gradually now . . .

reaping the impacts those images have created in countless numbers of these minds . . .

when fed that violence as a steady diet for years and years on end.

~

just sayin’

the golden age of hollywood is missed by some of us.

they knew how to tell a good story.  and they did.

and thank god we have film preservation people to keep them.

~

they might not have been able to pull off an IRON MAN 3 that i just saw.

 ~ and oddly enough actually rather enjoyed by the way! ~

only if because terrible evil was vanquished in the end.  (how refreshing!)

the visual effects were really the star of the movie.

you just keep thinking . . .  HOW is that done!

by computers of course.

still. not normally my kind of movie. at all.  it was true action fantasy.

but then it’s based on a marvel comics ‘super hero.’

and yes.  three hours of blowing stuff up.  whew!

i walked out weak in the knees.  i think i helped vanquish the foe

right along with iron man.  LOL.

~

but i digress.

when you find yourself in need of entertainment . . .

of quality.  and hope.  and humor that is not smutty.

  and beauty that is truly beauty

and dialogue that actually makes you THINK . . .

then get thyself

an old classic black and white film!

there is mystery there.

Black-and-White-portrait-eyes-models-art-Fashion-women-light-bw-people-glamour-poses-various-Allure-moment-still-rain-lollipop-lonely-missing-y

~

and your life will take on some of the

lovely shades of grey perhaps.

because as we all know . . .

not everything can be

black and white.

~

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courtesy of: favime

~

til soon old bean!

til soon.

May 122013
 

 

 

big white rose

 

dearest little mother,

i miss you of course.  i still do.  you left this planet and this plane of life when i was 26.   gosh.  i’d hardly got to know you. i mean, you know.  like grown up women.  although after daddy died we became like two grown up women.  you turned to me as more of a friend than a ‘daughter of 17.’  i think in your own grief and loneliness you paid me the tribute of thinking i could fill a grown up need for friendship.  a friend who knew exactly what you had just lost.  because i had loved him so too.

 

and you became my best friend.

 

i miss your laughter.  and i thank you that you passed that gift on to me.  the ability to see the ridiculousness of people’s natures. the silly things we do.  the lighthearted way of looking at the world through our tears.  it is perhaps the greatest gift you gave me.  because you didn’t know it … but i lost my bob only 7 years after losing you.  so i needed that way of looking at life.

 

i miss our singing together.  and you always taking the ‘harmony’ because i could never get the hang of it.  i wrote a post about you.  you are famous!    i have a ‘blog.’  it’s a computer world now little mother.  so different!

the post is called ‘the good ones . . . letter to rena.’   you remember . . .  that letter i wrote to you long ago.  i barely touched on who you really were.  and how much you mean to me.  no words can ever say it.  i’m sorry but i posted pictures of you on there too.  you weren’t around to ask permission!  but i don’t think you’ll mind.  they’re good.  and they show your warmth.  all 100 pounds of you. you were a star to me.  as lovely as any star in the heavens.  so you are famous here on the peanut.  just thought you’d like to know!

that’s the name of my blog.  all these funny words that were not even around when you were here.

 

you lived on popcorn and carmels and frosted flakes.  and endless cups of coffee!  i used to think you never ate enough vegetables. and you didn’t!  and now i probably don’t either.  but i know your secret.

you had a joie de vivre that few in my life have ever had.  you knew how to live.  you never felt ‘cheated’ by life.  even though it cut your happiness short.  you loved life.  and i love life.

and that is the greatest gift you gave me.

 

i hope wherever you are . . .  that you are enjoying yourself now!  that you still can eat caramels and are spreading them about like johnny did the appleseeds.

because they are important in the overall scheme of things.  the world needs more caramels.

the world needs more little mothers like you.

 

happy mother’s day my darling.

i will see you again.

tammyj

 

the white rose of honor to all our mothers who have gone is courtesy of  http://amazingpicturesoftheflowers.blogspot.com

~ and to all mothers everywhere

~ young ~ old ~ and in between ~

those who live near  ~ or those who live far  ~ or for those of us whose mother is in the mists of time and only a memory now ~

happy mothers day to you!  xo

and to those most special ones that weren’t so lucky in fate’s selection of their own mothers ~

but who are now mothers themselves ~

and know the value of true good motherhood ~ well. extra special wishes to you darling ones.  you know who you are.

and my heart goes out to you.

xooxox.

til soon old bean.

soon.